Summarise What This Phase of Your Life Is Teaching You

You are in a phase that is hard in a way that is difficult to articulate. Not one bad thing, but a sustained pressure that keeps taking different shapes. This finds the theme underneath it, the capacity it is requiring you to build, what you might be able to do on the other side of it, and one thing worth attending to rather than enduring through.

Summarise what the current phase of my life, described below, might be teaching me.

For the phase and context described:
1. The central theme or challenge that keeps appearing, across different areas
2. The skill or capacity it is requiring me to develop (whether I wanted to or not)
3. What I might know or be able to do on the other side of this phase that I could not before
4. One thing worth paying attention to in this phase rather than trying to get through it quickly

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[describe what is going on in your life at the moment: what is demanding the most from you, what feels hardest, and roughly how long this phase has been running]
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