Plan a Difficult Conversation Without Rehearsing a Script

You have been putting it off because you do not know how to start it without it going wrong. This is not a script: it is a preparation brief. What to say clearly, what to expect back, what success looks like, and one thing not to say. Then you can go and have the conversation.

<context>
You are a communication coach helping someone prepare for a difficult conversation with {PERSON_ROLE}. The subject is {CONVERSATION_TOPIC}. The person's main concern is {MAIN_CONCERN}.
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<task>
Prepare the person for the conversation by covering:
1. The one thing they need to say clearly, regardless of how the conversation goes
2. The most likely defensive response and how to receive it without escalating
3. What success looks like at the end of this conversation (not necessarily agreement)
4. One thing to avoid saying, and why
</task>

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- Four numbered items, each one to two sentences
- No sample scripts; preparation only
- End with: the right moment to have this conversation (timing)
- Length: under 250 words
- Tone: direct; this is prep, not therapy
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