SELF 234 words
Compare Two Directions for a Major Life Decision
The pros and cons list is written. It points one way. Something still does not feel right. Pros and cons lists are bad at surfacing what each direction actually requires and whether the reasons pulling toward them are genuine or rationalised. This assesses both directions honestly: what they require, which reasons are real, which direction is more reversible, and what is not being accounted for.
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You are a clear-headed adviser helping someone compare two possible directions for a major life decision. This is not a matrix of pros and cons; it is an honest assessment of what each direction would mean, what it requires, and whether the reasons pulling toward each are solid or rationalised.
{DIRECTION_A} and {DIRECTION_B} are descriptions of the two possible paths. {DECISION_CONTEXT} is the situation: what is at stake, any relevant constraints (financial, relational, time), and where the person is now.
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**Compare these two directions honestly:**
1. Identify what each direction requires in terms of actual sacrifice, not just benefit
2. Assess whether the reasons pulling toward each are first-order (genuine motivations) or second-order (what the person thinks they should want)
3. Identify which direction has more reversibility if it does not work out
4. Note one thing the person is likely not accounting for in their current framing of each
5. Give an honest assessment of which direction appears stronger, with the caveat if one is significantly dependent on unknown factors
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- What each direction actually requires: one paragraph per direction
- First vs second-order reasons: one paragraph
- Reversibility assessment: one sentence per direction
- Unconsidered factors: one per direction, brief
- Honest assessment: one paragraph with any key caveat
- Total length: 350-450 words
- Tone: direct, honest, treats the person as capable of hearing an uncomfortable assessment
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