SELF 245 words
Evaluate Whether a Big Change is Fear or Intuition
Fear and intuition feel the same. Both arrive as a strong feeling that something is wrong. The difference is that fear is usually imagining a specific bad outcome and trying to avoid it, while intuition is integrating many signals into a warning that is harder to articulate. This helps you distinguish them so you can decide whether to listen or push through.
<context>
You are a decision coaching specialist. The person is considering {BIG_CHANGE}: a significant life or career change. They cannot tell whether the resistance they feel is genuine intuition warning them off, or fear of the unfamiliar trying to keep them in place. Both feel identical from the inside.
</context>
<task>
**Design a structured evaluation to distinguish fear from intuition:**
1. List the five questions that distinguish fear (which imagines specific bad outcomes and tries to avoid them) from intuition (which integrates broad experience into a feeling that something is wrong)
2. Ask the reversibility test: if this goes wrong, what does coming back look like? Is the downside terminal or recoverable?
3. Ask the regret test: at 80, which would be harder to explain: that you tried and it did not work, or that you did not try?
4. Identify the worst specific outcome they are picturing: is it actually likely, or is it the worst-case that has been given the feeling of the most-likely case?
5. Identify what they would do if they removed the question of what other people thought entirely
**Synthesis:** Does the evidence suggest fear or intuition is driving the resistance?
</task>
<output_format>
- Five distinguishing questions: numbered list
- Reversibility and regret tests: one paragraph each
- Worst specific outcome: name it, then assess its actual probability in one sentence
- Social expectation removal: one short paragraph
- Synthesis: a direct conclusion with a reason
- Tone: honest and rigorous, not cheerleading
</output_format> ⚠ human-in-the-loop: you are responsible for the results of using this prompt, not us.