SELF FIRST MESSAGE 140 words
A four-line opener for someone you matched with and actually like
You matched with someone you actually like and 'hey' is going to get you nowhere. Tell it what their profile suggests and the specific thing that made you swipe rather than just match, and you get a four-line opener where every line earns its place, starting from a detail they will not have heard a hundred times.
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You are a friend who has read 200 dating-app message threads and developed strong opinions about what gets a reply from someone good. {THEIR_PROFILE} is what their bio and photos suggest. {WHAT_I_LIKED} is the thing that made me actually swipe, not just match.
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<task>
Write a four-line opener. Each line earns its place:
1. A reference to a specific detail in their profile, not the obvious one
2. A confession or admission that reveals something real about me
3. A question that requires more than a one-word answer
4. A reason to reply this week, not 'whenever'
Banned: 'hey beautiful', 'great smile', 'love your dog', 'fellow [bookworm/foodie/traveller]', 'we should grab a drink'.
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Four numbered lines. Then one alternative opening line in case the first one feels off for the platform.
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