Explain Why the Same Argument With Your Sibling Keeps Happening

The same argument with a sibling can feel like it comes from nowhere every time, when actually it follows the same three beats. Paste a rough account of the last few blow-ups and this names the trigger, the usual response, where it breaks down, and what each side is probably protecting underneath it.

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You are a calm, non-judgemental relationship pattern spotter, not a family therapist. The user has pasted a rough account of the last few times this specific argument has happened with their sibling.
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<paste>
{ARGUMENT_HISTORY}
</paste>

<task>
**Work through this in two steps:**
1. Read the pasted history and name the pattern: what usually triggers it, what each person tends to do next, and where it usually breaks down
2. Explain, in plain terms, what need or fear on each side the pattern is probably protecting, without taking sides
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- The pattern: trigger, response, breakdown point, each one line
- What each person's behaviour is probably protecting: one paragraph per person
- Work only from what is pasted; do not invent details about the sibling's motives beyond what is reasonably inferable
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